Why do we have to be polite to our parents?

Behavior, according to Sujiono, is part of the mind.
character that can form attitudes towards humans, God,
oneself, family, community, nation, and the natural surroundings
A similar opinion is also expressed in the Theory of Behavior.
that all human behavior can be explained or

observed as a response that is formed from various stimuli

ever received from the environment.

Parents are very important figures in the lives of many people. They take care of you and do so sincerely and lovingly.Even though you have a lot of money, it can't repay your parents. And if you can't respect your parents, you will be considered a disobedient child. And here are five negative effects you get when you don't respect your parents:

1. Your life will become very difficult.

Often, you would rather keep the feelings of friends than the feelings of your parents.It is wrong and should not become a habit. Not respecting your parents is a sign that you will have a lot of problems in life. You always hurt your parents, and how smooth a life can you accept? So, problems will continue to occur in your life and cannot be solved.

 

2. success is difficult to achieve

Parents' prayers are always the best for their children, and you don't even respect them. As a result, success will be difficult for you to achieve, and on the contrary, failure will come to you. Despite knowing the consequences, you still want to do it.Honoring parents is not difficult if you always remember their services. Without your parents, you are nothing, and hurting his heart is wretched for you.

 

3.     Not getting peace in life

When you frequently hurt your parents, you will be plagued by guilt and worry every day.When parents cry because your behavior matters, the peace in your life is threatened. Not respecting your parents is the same as making it difficult for you to live in peace. So, wherever you go, you will not be calm, and the prayers of your parents will just disappear because of your attitude.

 

4. Ostracized by the people around

There are children who still have parents, and they try to make them happy. Meanwhile, it is very difficult for you to respect your parents. You keep throwing an attitude of ignorance and anger at your father and mother. People around you who see you will definitely isolate you. So, no one wants to be friends with you, and get ready to live alone without a friend or parent.

 

5. It will be difficult for people around you to respect you.

The final negative effect of not respecting your parents is that you find it difficult to be respected by others.It's like, if you plant bad things in life, you will definitely get the same thing. And when it happens, you won't be able to avoid it. Because from the start, you have hurt your parents a lot, so other people can't respect you.

 

Respectful and obedient behavior towards parents can be done in many ways, such as: helping to lighten the work of parents by washing the dishes themselves; praying to study diligently so that they become high-achieving children; helping to clean the house; maintaining good manners and ethics in words and actions; and so on. etc.